Looking for a weekend getaway close to the New York metropolitan and tri-state area? Check out the Doral Arrowwood for great value and a great time.
The Fourth of July was approaching and my family and I had no plans in place. A weekend getaway was what we wanted. We needed a resort close to our home in New York City, with activities that both my husband, myself and our teen-aged daughter could partake in, with a price tag that wouldn’t break the bank. Doral Arrowwood Resort in Rye Brook, Westchester County, New York seemed to be just what we were searching for. It is located a mere 40 minutes’ drive from my Manhattan home and it is easily reached by train and a short taxi ride from the train station in White Plains. Mainly a conference center for corporate retreats during the week, the weekend transforms the hotel into a family-friendly, activity-packed resort with activities for every age.
I booked the “Time for Two” package, which included a room with two queen beds and a copious buffet breakfast for 2 for $149. Check in was 3pm on Saturday, but the hotel reservation agent told me that we were welcome to arrive early on Saturday to take advantage of all that the hotel offered. We did just that, arriving at the hotel by 11am and checking our luggage with the Bellman. We were given a list of the non-stop weekend activities planned, all of them included in our room rate.
Doral Arrowwood: Fun on Day One
We began exploring the resort’s acres of manicured greenery before finding our way to the huge indoor-outdoor swimming pool. We were clearly not the only ones as the pool area was jam-packed. After a few minutes, a pool boy was able to locate three lounge chairs for us. We positioned them as far away as we could from the crowd, but we quickly realized that no one comes to the Arrowwood for peace and quiet. The large number of families, many of them extended families with grandparents in tow, come summer weekends year after year for the cruiseship-style fun at a low price. The amount of noise from crying babies and boisterous teens was heightened by the fact that the Arrowwood is located right next door to the Westchester County Airport. We were in the direct line of planes taking off every few minutes, right over our heads.
If you are looking for a weekend of tranquility, this is not the place for you.
We decided to get into the swing of things by changing into our tennis clothes in the locker room and joining the one-hour tennis clinic, held on the resort’s five tennis courts. The two tennis pros cheerfully counted 30 participants, and divided us into two groups — beginners and intermediate. They began drilling us on forehand, backhand, volley and serve before we started a game called King of the Court. As a novice player, I lucked out with my Pro, Elné, a South African college student who plays tennis for the University of Arkansas. She was both patient and professional, and took the time to correct my grip as well as my other technical mistakes, too numerous to mention. My group included five people over the age of 80, all actively enjoying the tennis clinic. Conversation flowed freely as we improved our strokes.
Everyone that I met was a regular at the resort, and was extremely welcoming to us first timers. We were hot and ready to dive into the pool after the tennis clinic. The outdoor pool was packed with people, from toddlers with water wings to grandmotherly-looking ladies trying hard not to get their recently done hair damp.
But indoors were three lanes for lap swim, all empty. I grabbed my goggles and enjoyed a lovely swim. When I exited the water, I found my family splashing in the outdoor pool. A live three-man Calypso combo, The Linc Carnival band, had begun serenading the crowd. Their repertoire of Reggae and well-known Calypso favorites added to the festive atmosphere, as they played on throughout the afternoon. At 2 pm, face painting began. A crowd of toddlers and children swarmed the artist, who was appropriately dressed for the holiday in a red, white, and blue spangled outfit. The hotel had set up an inflatable structure with a slide, and many small children bounced on it while they waited to have their faces painted.
An elegant silver cart was setting up in a shady spot, and a massive line quickly formed. It seemed to us as if everyone at the hotel was in the know. We were told that it was complimentary sorbet time. The line moved quickly, and while we waited, gregarious regulars seemed pleased to share their knowledge about the hotel.
I learned that every summer weekend offered complimentary activities, but holiday weekends were especially chock full of both activities and guests enjoying them. 5pm brought the weekly cocktail party held in the giant gazebo next to the pool. A cupcake display caught every child’s eye, with red, white, and blue cupcakes placed in the shape of the American flag. A bar serving wine, beer and soft drinks was accompanied by a plentiful buffet of classic hors d’oeuvres, like mini egg rolls, pigs in a blanket and skewered grilled shrimp. The crowd literally pounced on the food, but the good-natured staff took it all in stride. Several of the hotel guests arrived with bags and Tupperware, and took provisions that were clearly intended to be consumed later, but no one on staff blinked an eye. We joked that Jerry Seinfeld should have set an episode of his television show at the cocktail party. It was that entertaining.
The Iron Chef competition was next. Two hotel chefs were pitted against each other to produce their best dishes, featuring lobster. Three hotel guests were selected to judge, but everyone was welcome to taste the results. Stamina was needed to get by the crowd of mostly older hotel guests to do so, but it was worth it to sample the delicious results.
Our afternoon was so packed that we had forgotten to check into our room, which by now seemed beside the point. But our room proved a quiet and elegant oasis from the chaos of all that fun.
Evening brought Casino Night, complete with some nice prizes for the winners, such as a dinner dance for two at the hotel. The resort offers a kids Dive-In movie poolside, as well as a film for grown-ups, shown at the hotel’s indoor screening room. Both films featured complimentary beverages and snacks. An elegant Dinner Dance is held in the Atrium restaurant each Saturday night, with a live band and vocalist. We had fun spying elegantly dressed couples dance the night away.
We were stuffed from the cocktail party offerings, so we had a light meal at The Pub, which features burgers and sandwiches, all reasonably priced at under $12. A live DJ arrived at 9 pm, and families crowded the dance floor, with everyone from grannies on down enjoying dancing to Britney Spears and Michael Jackson. The Pub was full of kids shooting pool and watching sporting events on the multiple giant screens. There was no pressure for anyone to order anything, only to have fun.
We were exhausted from all the activities and slept soundly, glad that the party atmosphere and overhead planes did not carry over to our room. The beds were very comfortable, piled with luxurious pillows.
Day Two: More Doral Arrowwood Fun
The next morning we rose early as some of the “regulars” had advised us that this was the best way to have a peaceful morning meal. We were pleased to be given a table with a view of the lovely gardens and golf course. We are not golfers, but the Doral Arrowwood is home to a 9-hole course, and the hotel offers weekend golf packages as well. Our waiter brought us coffee and fresh squeezed orange juice, before we hit the buffet. There was a made-to-order omelet station, any hot breakfast food that you could think of, as well as a huge variety of cold cereals. We enjoyed the summer fresh fruits, such as melons and berries. No one could go hungry with the bounty that was offered.
The staff did not seem to mind the slightest bit when guests grabbed yogurts, muffins, boxed cereal, and all other portable food on their way out. This attitude was prevalent throughout our stay. A live and let live spirit seemed to permeate the staff, who never seemed surprised or annoyed by any of the guest’s bold and brazen behavior.
We spent Sunday much as we had Saturday. Check out time on The Time for Two package was a rather early 11am, but we were welcomed again to store our bags and stay as long as we liked. We enjoyed another tennis clinic, and checked out the spacious, well-equipped gym. We swam and sunned, and by 3pm, most of the other guests had gone, giving us a bit of tranquility. It was calm, but I surprisingly missed the friendly small talk, the older gentleman who went up to each guest telling the same joke, the small children on the bouncy slide, laughing between crying jags. I even missed the “regulars” and their cornucopia of advice. Strangely, now that silence prevailed, I began to appreciate the circus-like climate that had been annoying only moments before.
After a few minutes of reminiscing, my family and I started to enjoy having the outdoor pool to ourselves. We wandered over to the now empty tennis courts and were spotted by Elné who gave us a mini lesson. When we tried to thank her for her time with a small tip, she refused, saying we looked like we needed the help, and that she did not want any compensation.
We had the ping pong table and basketball courts to ourselves. We were finally able to read a few chapters of the books that we had brought, the only distracting noise now being the jets overhead. We hadn’t planned to stay all day, but the afternoon flew by, and it was suddenly 7pm and time to go.
We all felt refreshed, having been away for two full days, while only paying for one night’s accommodation. It had been a real experience, more fun than we expected. We are already thinking about spending Labor Day weekend at the Doral Arrowwood.
We won’t be the only ones, but that is sure to be part of the fun.
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Aurelia – never fear. One of our authors took her teen on an "Angels & Demons" tour of Rome after the book came out.
They went all over looking for the temples that held clues to the killer's identity — see her story at http://www.familytravelforum.com/where/europe/12000-Angels-And-Demons-Rome.html
For this summer, the movie has just come out and your son will have lots of fun tracing the filming locations on a map of Rome. The movie highlights some of the city's greatest monuments and it and the book are filled with fascinating facts about the city, the Vatican and its cultural history. I bet you can get him involved in this "treasure hunt" along with the whole family.
Enjoy!
While in Sacramento, be sure to check out the Old Sacramento Scavenger Hunt. Kids get to learn a little about the Pony Express, Gold Rush History, Transcontinental Railroad, etc. by solving riddles and eye spy activities.
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We will be traveling with a 16 year old to Rome for 4 days. He is in the "everything's boring" stage and, other than the colloseum, we're not sure what he'd like. Any suggestions?
He likes science museums, particularly hands-on stuff.
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Gosh, my husband and I feel jealous! Sounds like just the type of relaxing family holiday (this often being a contradiction in terms) that would work for us and OUR hard-to-please teenage cubs. You've got us looking towards Florida for our next holiday, probably the Amelia island Ritz Carlton!
Great article!!
What writing program was this for?
Sounds like a great vacation, I can definitely relate to the fresh air anecdote!
Yes,Shanghai surely is one of the most beautiful cities in China.Bund has the name of East of Wall Street.
Here is the website about travelling in Shanghai and China,it would help you.
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This is so great to hear how encouraging the teachers are. I tried to learn to surf once in Brazil and it was just useless, trying to jump up on the board when we practised on the beach. I felt like such a beached whale.
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and we are happy to help you plan your reunion. For prices at Stratton this August, please get in touch with the resort directly. Good luck!
Dear 120Dayslater..thanks for your thorough answer…both helpful and rather wry! Good show and I think you have the issue in perspective!
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This is one of the best aquariums in the country and worth a full-day visit. Plan to wander around, take advantage of the kids' programs, and then have lunch there and relax for a bit. Then explore some more. Occasionally a local nonprofit group will have an evening program in the aquarium where their members and friends can buy tickets (more expensive than the regular tickets) but you really get the place to yourselves and can wander about. It is a great way to see the aquarium with teens, as they appreciate the more mysterious evening hours at the aquarium and there is still plenty to see. I imagine you could call the aquarium to find out dates when that might be happening.
I visited Sosua in the north coast in the Dominican Republic and I loved this exciting place and other thing. It's not a bad drive, and rental cars are not too expensive, and you'll find dozens of beaches on the way where you can stop and grab some salt water on silky sand and of course you could enjoy the hotel Sosua Bay Beach Resort. it's between Cabarete and Costambar . I'll be back next year. http://www.sosuabayresort.com
I was never really interested in the Mid-west until now. I might have to give st. Louis a visit!
this is a well illustrated website and would definately try you when I come for the world cup next year.
I like the description, entertainment is very important for all now in this busy world. But parents are satisfied if their kids are happy and enjoying during picnic/outing/an trip. After their exams children needs a change, to make their minds relaxed so plan for an outing which is enjoyable for your kids.
Eurocamp was a great deal for us when we took our kids to Italy a few years ago. Though there was no TV, there were pools, restaurants, etc…things you don't always have at state parks. And you didn't need an RV! I picked all ours for their proximity to large Italian cities we were visiting. We had plenty of space, a full kitchen, a private bath and still paid much less than we would any hotel in Florence, Rome or Venice. We loved it. And, most of the camps had transportation into the city for a reasonable price!
Thanks for this great list…my family is already booked for New Hampshire this year and I was looking on the web for Lake Tahoe vacations for next year when I came across this site.
When we went to Italy, we stayed at Eurocamps and they were a really great deal, especially when you hear how small and expensive hotels in Europe can be. I hope other people take your advice too!
In our experience, at many supervised kids' camps — especially if they're not crowded — a parent can bring a younger child in and stay with them for one or two activities.
If the counselors determine that the child will be comfortable without a parent present, which is what must have happened in Annie's case, they welcome the parent to leave their child at the camp and enjoy the rest of the resort. The counselors are always within cellphone contact and will ask parents to return if they think it's in the child's best interests.
In some states, there might be legal restrictions on minimum ages for daycare.
you mention your child was 3 years old and that you took her to the kids camp?? how is this possible when the article states they take kids age 5 and up??
For one day Legoland is probably not a good choice and you may be better off exploring Copenhagen. You could actually just go to Tivoli Gardens and enjoy a day in the amusement park there.
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I am having a problem getting a passport for my infant. We are currently in court – I only have temporary custody so far and his father refuses to sign the application for my son to get a passport. His father is from the middle east and had threatened to take the baby. I want to go to my sister's wedding in August in Trinidad and I don't know what to do. My lawyer is unsure if he will be able to succeed in getting a court order demanding that the father signs the document. Does anyone have any information regarding my problem. Thanks.
Don't go to your sister's wedding. Don't worry about any one else other than your child. Your ex-husband is waiting for an opportunity to prover you more concern over others than your child. The wedding is an example.I'm sure your sister will understand your situation. Your main concern is your child and getting full custody of him/her. As a signal parent, your life, world, actions are based on your childs well fair. Not your happiness or anything that has to do with you.
check out Sleeps5.com for a free listing of hotels primarily in Europe that will accommodate families of five or more in one room.
Tourism in Sichuan Province China is rich in resources,there is the hometwn of giant pandas.It has World Heritage Areas in China such as Jiuzhaigou valley, Huanglong, Emei Mountain and lashan Giant Buddha,Qingcheng Mountain and Dujiangyan Irrigation system, Wolong Panda Siguniangshan ecological zones. From Chengdu to Lhasa,Tibet, Yunnan Dali, Lijiang tourism line is also very convenient.
hamburg ist a beautiful city, ya. I especially like the Aalster area with its trees.
Hi There Guys,
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An eco resort for skiing sounds like a really awesome idea for a family vacation. 60+ years wow! that's awesome. I'm so glad eco travel is on the rise and it can be incorporated on any trip 🙂
Parents are splitting with kids right and left, something needs to be done. Children without passports are fairly protected but once the passport is issued there doesn't seem to be a procedure in place for revoking that passport until such time it must be renewed and even then I'm not sure it can be revoked. In some ways this policy is good and the right thing to do, but, it could also be a way for a controlling ex to make somebody's life miserable. As clogged as the courts are these days it can take months to get a hearing for a judge to order than the child can leave the country…so the moral is, if the ex is going to be a butt about it you better start planning about a year ahead of time and make sure whatever order you get has the required information contained in it or the airline/shipping line etc. may just refuse to honor it. Kids need to be protected, especially from middle eastern fathers/mothers that take the kids to non-hague countries. It's a very nasty situation and it's heartening to see this done but it can be a dual edged sword and may cause a lot of problems no one thought about.
I always check the rates with several codes from that list and book the lowest, without even looking whose it is. So do my friends. We have never been asked to show any ID, certificate, business card, flight ticket or anything else. The rental agent really couldn't care less, and I'm sure the rental company is happy to get the business even at a low margin.
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You can rent from Alamo. They don't have a maximum age for rentals in Israel.
I stumbled upon your post as I was worrying a bit about our upcoming 4 days in Provence in August. We are traveling with our two daughters, ages 15 and 20, and I found your post to be just what I needed! We will be spending one night in Cassis on the coast and 3 nights in Isle Sur La Sorgue. I have already planned a day exploring the Luberon area with the same itinerary as yours. So thanks for the post!
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Hi Deborah –
This will no doubt be your most surprising comment to date. My father was Bob Witten, his mother was Ida Slavitt, His gradnfather Morris Slavitt. I have only today come upon a family tree and am google-ing everyone.
If your father was Norman Slavitt and of course if you have any interest in talking family I'd be so happy to hear from you.
Betsy
Can a healthy 81 year old male rent a car in Israel and if yes,what companies rent for my age?
In eurtour site the rate of hotels are too cheap and they also provides the discount on European hotels and the hotels are too good.
I'm the dad of the teenager with the pink hair. Chris & Pat said it all – brings back great memories — looking forward to the next trip to St Barths!
Thanks for the family-friendly eco-destination lineup. I also wanted to recommend an ecotour company with a lineup of fabulous family nature tours – all small-group and able to be customized to age of kids, etc. Natural Habitat Adventures' green credentials are impeccable and they offer family destinations from South America to Africa to the good ol' U.S. For more info check out http://www.nathab.com
I love Morocco too, thanks for sharing your story.
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Tourism in Sichuan Province China is rich in resources,there is the hometwn of giant pandas.It has World Heritage Areas in China such as Jiuzhaigou valley, Huanglong, Emei Mountain and lashan Giant Buddha,Qingcheng Mountain and Dujiangyan Irrigation system, Wolong Panda Siguniangshan ecological zones. From Chengdu to Lhasa,Tibet, Yunnan Dali, Lijiang tourism line is also very convenient.
I like the Bund, Nanjing Road and zhujiajiao old street and other sites nearby.
Great Wall is a very highlights during a China tour. Most people like it, trekking, hiking is very nice.