Exploring Taj Mahal and Agra, India with the Family

On your first trip to India, fall in love with the Taj Mahal in Agra, a monument to love that is considered one of the Seven Wonders of the World. This UNESCO World Heritage site divides the world into two kinds of people, said President Bill Clinton, “Those who have seen the Taj Mahal and those who have not.”

It is truly the grandest of Agra’s architectural marvels yet only one of many you must see.

Young boy poses in front of the Taj Mahal.
Visitors love to pose by “holding” the Taj Mahal in their hands.

The Taj Mahal, built over a period of 22 years by 20, 000 workers, was commissioned in 1632 by Mughal emperor Shah Jahan. He envisioned a spectacular tomb for his beloved wife, Mumtaz Mahal, who died giving birth to their 14th child. A glimmering white marble mausoleum reaching 240 feet into the hazy clouds, is intricately carved and inlaid with sparkling semi-precious gems and stones like carnelian, jade, onyx and lapis lazuli.

There’s more to Agra than just the Taj. Base yourselves at one of the many fine hotels in this bustling small city and spend a few days seeing this corner of Uttar Pradesh (U.P. to the locals.) It’s time well spent getting to know the life of north India and slipping slowly into the meditative pace you will need for the rest of your adventurous journey across this amazing country.

Vegetables as Culture in U.P.

Ginger and potato vendor at Agra Market
A local cook carefully weighs fresh ginger root and potatoes, staples of Indian cooking, at the Agra Market.

Lesser-known than the Taj Mahal – and a must-see cultural attraction in its own right – the daily Agra Vegetable Market is an interactive thrill.

The city of 4.5 million is a distribution hub for produce grown throughout the country for domestic consumption. The main market, open 6am to 9am daily, is along VIP Road (the locals’ name for Fatehabad Road, because it’s lined with the five-star hotels that VIPs occupy.)

In Agra itself, the primary winter crops are mustard for cooking oil and potatoes. Look out for the very popular guava plant, a fruit served raw in India and sprinkled with masala to bring out the flavor. Watch out for fields of tomato, chilis, onions and green peppers. During monsoon (June through August) when the rain comes — which it hasn’t the past few years due to climate change — the crop rotates to rice.

Nidhi Kapur of Energizing Journeys, our luxury travel advisor and India specialist based in New Delhi, had insisted on booking a guide for our family -– an excellent suggestion. When our guide Sanjay arrived with his piercing green eyes and dapper tweed jacket, we needed convincing that he was a tourist guide and not a local celebrity. We began Sanjay’s walking tour at 8:30 a.m.

Vegetables as Heritage Craft in U.P.

An onion seller brings his puppy to the Agra Market.
An onion seller brings his puppy to the Agra Market.

The Agra Vegetable Market takes place in a scrub desert lot next to a highway where brightly painted trucks with “Please Horn” written on their tailgates rumble and roll by. It’s noisy and fragrant and fun.

Produce is arranged by type: onions mounded in a row of 20 vendors sitting cross-legged on the ground. Then, we saw 20 dried beans and lentil stalls with burlap bags out front; and another 20 vendors whose blue tarps are spread, exhibition-style, with potatoes.

Each vendor is seated on a tarp or under one, on a plot they own and would one day leave to their children and children’s children. Transient middlemen would crouch down between them over piles of blood red carrots, glittering bunches of coriander or gnarled ginger root.

As we walk, the dudewalla are loading metal tins of fresh milk, both cow and buffalo, onto bikes to deliver it to shops and restaurants. Young boys are playing at the edges of the sellers’ tarps. Old men are shooing cows away so that restaurant buyers can decide what farm-to-table item will be on tonight’s menu.

Sampling the Fare at Agra Market

VIP Road is busy and chai and and snack vendors are there to take advantage. Pausing to watch them, we ogle handfuls of wheat dough being patted flat, then slid into a wok of boiling oil. One at a time, the puri turn gold, fill with air, develop blisters and are flipped over to inflate some more.

Just when we’re about to shriek “Stop, enough!,” a wok-full of freshly fried puri are shuttled onto pages of the Hindustan Times so the oil can drain. Happy customers are served a puri to sop up a woven-leaf bowlful of chole bhature, which is a chana masala or mildly spicy chick pea breakfast curry.

Selfies and the Taj Mahal

Red Fort of Akbar in Agra
The Red Fort of Akbar is another one of Agra’s remarkable monuments in the Moghul style with a huge courtyard to play in.

Plan at least two to three days in Agra, to see the Taj Mahal in the morning before the many tour buses arrive and again at dusk, from the peaceful Mehtab Bagh gardens across the Jamuna River.

Take your time. Indians love to do clicks, selfies, and selfwes of their large travel parties. With selfie sticks telescoped out to great lengths, we saw school groups pose in Bollywood dance routines, multigenerational groups positioned to “hold” the Taj Mahal in hand, and many other permutations that gave visitors the best viewing angles… and kept us waiting, totally amused, for them to pass.

So Much to See in Agra

The Red Fort of Agra, built near the Taj Mahal by Akbar, Emperor Shah Jahan’s grandfather, and the last place of residence for the bereaved emperor after losing Mumtal, is another monumental tribute to Mughal style.

We were enchanted by the “Baby Taj” as Sanjay called it. The Itimad Ud Daulah is a beautifully ornate, very approachable, marble shrine to the man who had been chief minister to Jahangir, son of Akbar, and whose daughter married the Mughal ruler. When her father died (a generation before Shah Jahan’s reign), she commissioned the first all-marble structure in India and its mix of Islamic and Indian styles became very influential.

In other parts of Uttar Pradesh and Rajasthan, families will see many Mughal monuments crafted from the region’s famous red sandstone but the mark of Emperor Shah Jahan was his affection for white marble, brought from 400 kms away to be used in every shrine he commissioned.

Blessed Old Town of Agra

Shiva Temple in Old Town of Agra
Devotees of Lord Shiva tend to the offerings at the Shiva Temple in Old Town, where visitors must remove all traces of leather before entering.

When in India, seeing the old towns and market sections is a must in cities where cell towers and traffic crowd out the rickshaws and cows.

The Rawatpara Spice Market is a fascinating part of Old Agra, a cacophonous jumble of exposed electrical lines, ramshackle shops, Hindu temples, mosques and bicycle rickshaws competing with mopeds and cows for respect.

Sanjay led us around to Mankameshwar Mandir, one of four original temples dedicated to Lord Shiva located in the four corners of Agra City, thought to be an ancient center of Shiva worship. (The Taj Mahal is said by some to be a Shiva temple.) As the city grew around it, the temple today is roofed and walled in by a nondescript sheet metal and concrete structure that deprives passersby of any view.

It was a travel moment that only a knowledgeable insider could provide: Sanjay explained we must remove all leather before entering. He told us to buy a ghee candle as an offering so we could request three wishes -– which would be granted — so of course we did. We spent 15 minutes with the temple’s Sadhu as he chanted, put red dots on each forehead, tied marigold colored threads around our wrists and blessed us. Lucky us.

Agra’s Family-Friendly Hotels

Close up of Taj Mahal wall with flowers made from agate, carnelian and jade inlaid in marble.
These flowers adorning the white marble walls of the Taj Mahal are made by inlaying agate, carnelian and jade stones.

Agra has a wide range of hotels and the nights of the full moon (when the Taj is said to gleam with an otherworldly passion) command the highest rates.

We were booked into the ITC Mughal, Agra. This Luxury Collection hotel, affiliated with Starwood, was built more than 30 years ago in the Mughal style, with several inner courtyards and pools, gurgling fountains, green lawns and red brick room blocks set around the 35 acres of manicured grounds.  

A rollaway bed was tucked into one of the 233 rooms for us, rooms appointed with banks of pillows, Indian artwork, marble counter tops and garden views. Kaya Kalp – The Royal Spa is very well known in India, and had won awards from Conde Nast Traveler and others. We wanted to try its wide range of Ayurveda massage and treatments so the whole family was pampered: my husband tolerated a two-handed Abhyanga Massage designed to awaken inner wisdom; I loved the Hot Herbal Poultice rejuvenating massage soothed by fragrant, warm oils; and our son relished his facial and restorative oil massage.

Our breakfast buffet included both north and south Indian dishes, a Chinese rice porridge station, baked beans and toast, and other international cuisines; comfortable rooms start at US$125 per night.

Trip Planning Details for an Agra Visit

Among the dozens of other hotels, at the very top stands the super luxurious Oberoi Amarvilas, ranked #3 on Travel + Leisure World’s Best Awards in Asia. Talk about a romantic hotel; all rooms at this palace overlook the Taj Mahal. The Oberoi Amervilas has a celebrated spa, gourmet restaurants, cascading multi-level pools and baking classes for kids. Rooms range upwards of US$600 per night depending on season.

Another option, more affordable, is the elegant Trident Agra, which is running family specials from mid-January to April 15, 2020. It’s tastefully modern, with low buildings surrounded by landscaped gardens and water fountains enclosing an outdoor pool. Rates for a minimum two-night stay include a double room, breakfast, 25% off spa treatments, a daily Happy Hour at the hotel bar and 50% savings on an adjoining room for two children up to 12 years. The Trident Kids’ Club comes with, and has programs that range from a splash pool to badminton, cooking classes to pottery.

On the other end of the scale are more simple, convenient hotels like Clarks Shiraz, a popular contemporary hotel with high TripAdvisor ratings from US$70 per night. 

Agra is easily reached by the Express Train from New Delhi, which arrives in less than three hours. Taxis are plentiful within the town, and any hotel can arrange a car and driver for local sightseeing if you are not traveling with your own.

Our best advice: Make sure to allow enough time in Agra to fall in love all over again.

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4 Replies to “Falling in Love with the Taj Mahal in Agra”

  • Achyut

    Agra is one of the best beautiful places in India and the Taj Mahal is one of the Beautiful world heritage places in the world. Thanks, for sharing great information learn something new today.

  • Devesh

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  • ggomez2224

    Indeed! Agra is one of the most beautiful places in India to visit. Taj Mahal is one of my favourites. Seeing Agra Fort in Person is quite mesmerizing too. Thank for the trip planning details. I will bookmark this for my future India travels. 

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