The last week of August 2005, a natural disaster struck the southern United States and impacted millions of lives. Hurricane Katrina caused grief, tragedy, and despair. But for me, it was a blessing in disguise. One of the 400,000 displaced citizens of New Orleans was 15-year-old Chelsea. Fearing the storm and the damage it would cause, Chelsea fled her home in search of refuge. Almost 700 miles later, in St. Louis, Missouri, she stopped. She moved in with a host family, and enrolled in a local high school. And there, she met me.
Chelsea and I shared only one class, but during that class we bonded. We began hanging out outside of school: we shopped, went to concerts, and explored festivals. Chelsea told me about the home she so dearly missed: the city and its rich culture, her family and their traditions, her friends and what they did for fun. I dreamed of traveling to this amazing place, and when Chelsea left St. Louis and returned to New Orleans for good, I was jealous. Chelsea and I continued to e-mail, talk on the phone, and write letters.
My fears of losing touch vanished, and when she invited me to come to New Orleans for a week during the summer, I jumped at the chance. The summer of 2006, nearly a year after the storm, I prepared to take my first solo plane ride. I was nervous, but the promise of seeing my best friend for the first time in months soothed my fears.
After an interminable flight over Lake Ponchartrain, the plane landed. I gathered my things from the overhead compartment, and rushed out of the plane. The airport was empty; the eerie silence reminded me of the reports I’d seen on the news of the airport being used as a mausoleum following the storm.
As I hurried to baggage claim, I realized for the first time I was entering a city that had suffered an immense tragedy. With great relief, I embraced Chelsea as we waited for my luggage. The air was hot and muggy, and Chelsea’s mom, Miss Judy, gave me a reassuring hug and loaded my bags into the trunk.
Chelsea booked a surprise cooking class for us, and as we discussed the coming week, I was filled with excitement. We arrived at the cooking class at a local mall. I was apprehensive at first; I’d never eaten Cajun or Creole, and spicy was my worst enemy. With each shake of the “Slap Ya Mama” spice shaker, I grew more nervous. What would I eat for the week? The cooking instructors added dish after dish to our plates, and I apprehensively took my first bite. The food was amazing!
When the class ended, we climbed back into Miss Judy’s car. Excited to see Chelsea again, I paid little attention as the view outside the car changed. When Ms. Judy began talking about the damage, I almost didn’t know what she was referring to. Now, as I looked out the window, the area surrounding us was heartbreaking. Homes were ruined and trash was everywhere. Big spray-painted Xs covered the fronts of the houses, the recovery teams’ signatures. I again remembered the images I’d seen on the news of families leaving their homes and belongings behind. Many would never return. I continued to see disturbing images like these throughout the week.
Though she’d been seeing these images daily for over six months, I witnessed Chelsea’s continued pain. While much of the city feigned normalcy, many parts had not. Often I found myself turning my head to look away. Luckily, Chelsea and I did experience a lot more than the sad effects of the hurricane. I submerged myself into a culture completely unlike my own. The brass instruments of street musicians played lively jazz tunes. Po’ boys, red beans and rice, gumbo, and beignets were staples at every meal. Thick southern accents and New Orleans pride created an atmosphere like no other city.
Leaving New Orleans was hard. I hugged my best friend and held back the tears, knowing that it would not be my last visit with Chelsea. I boarded the plane and headed home; glad to be back where I could pronounce everything on the menu. I missed Chelsea, and still do. My best friend by my side, exploring a city like no other, my first trip to New Orleans was one I’ll never forget.
Adriana Hart-Schmidt of Webster Groves, Missouri won Honorable Mention for this essay.
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I don't get why Brian Head is up there – it does have a lovely ski school for kids but it can't even come close to the other areas you mention or many other western US resorts for a family experience. It's really a day trip for people who live in Las Vegas!
Thanks for sharing your beautiful story. You make some great points and I hope to have the experience you did one day.
I especially like that you wish that kind of eye-opening experience for the people you care about too.
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We get many questions from parents about their kids traveling within the US, over state lines, with guardians other than their parents.
It is illegal to cross U.S. state lines with a minor without custodial parents' consent, and the age of "minors" varies across the states. However, the families within this travel community have never complained about having a problem when inviting friends of their children along on a trip, for example, so we have little experience with this issue.
Therefore, this article is for travel outside the United States, where there are clear international laws in place to prevent international child abduction.
Within the US, temporary guardians should use the same permission to travel letter as well as medical treatment authorization letter noted at the end of the article, when possible.
Keep in mind that these laws are in place to allow authorities to investigate a traveling party if they notice suspicious activity (such as children who resist going with adults). Of course, the majority of travelers will never be stopped and questioned. For most of you, if the birth parents are easily available by phone, then making a daytrip should not be a problem.
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What a great article! We went to Tulum a few years back, before we had kids, and loved staying in the $15 cabanas on the beach but always wondered how to go back with the little ones … you have given us an option!
I would like to know if a permission letter from my son and Daughter inlaw and my grand Daughters birth certificate is enough to take my 10 yr old grand daughter
on a day trip in to the U.S.A
I agree that these ski trips are expensive, and although I enjoy going with the family I don't ski, and have no urge to learn at my age. I love going with the family however, but spend all my time at the spa and the lounge in front of the fire.
In this article the author comes across as the typical 'progressive' who feels apologetic about their country.
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We are off to the Whitsundays with our two girls for ten days and the article sounds great. We're provisioning ourselves though, as we save alot of money each time we sail from Shute Harbour. We've also practised man-overboard procedure in our pool and have increased the frequency of our girls swimming lessons and have stinger suits.
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Nice article. I have traveled Ireland many times and loved staying in Self Catering vacation rentals. It's like having a home form home and provides lots of space for the kids.
"parents …will find that the special infant fare is currently offered on all major domestic airlines;" Not all of them. "Delta does not offer discounted infant and child fares for travel within the domestic U.S." according to their website.
Made my mouth water. A great piece. Can't wait to return to discover the places you did and we didn't.
Great piece! Very insightful!
what a fascinating article
it certainly makes the cove palace come to life
seems like a great place to go
alison you brought it to life
We did a similar trip when our daughter was 6 at Club Med. However, that was much more costly and with fewer options.
This sounds great.
I loved reading your article. Our family tends to vacation your USUAL way (that is, no big all- inclusive resort package) yet reading your piece I realized how much our teenage kids would enjoy that type of experience- whoa! A teenage LOUNGE? Cool!! So if indeed such a holiday can be had as you say at an economic price- why not? Who knows, maybe next time we might just head down to Mexico ourselves- the easy way!
PS: We are interested in Eastern Europe and are considering a family holiday in Serbia or Croatia- Any suggestions? Maybe there are some good family deals over there?
Indy is a great place to visit … so many things to do, yet very walkable and convenient. And affordable.
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Hi Shamita,
What’s a tutu… it sounds pretty funny.
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Whew!*sigh of relief* Fathers are really amazing, they can comfort you whenever possible. This post made me realize that diffrent people has diffrent cultures, it just that, sometimes, we need to trust others, as one saying goes “If you’ll never learn to trust, how can you find the good guys?” 😉
Life’s really like that, sometimes, learnings come from unexpected places. Good for you atleast that experience made you a better person.:)
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The author mentions 2 highly regarded companies, Nabila Tours and Sonesta, an American hotel chain that has boats on the Nile. Both companies have links in the story, and both can help with land arrangements as well.
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Wish all the family have a nice time in China.
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RoomSaver's website says that they are available in all of the lower 48 states, so they are no longer limited to 33. I love using them myself, both for the discounts as well as the free maps! I even follow them on Facebook and Twitter!
Who can you recommend to book us an organized tour for a family of three. Travel would be between December 21, 2009 and January 1, 2010.
This is such a good story and you make a really good point about how people — often more than places — make up the travel experience. I hope I sit next to you on a plane some day.
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I'm goin to travel to another state to see my family, and my cousin wants me to take her 6month baby boy so the family can meet him. What kind of form would I need in order for me to travel with my cousin's baby?
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