India 2010: Family, Food, Fun, Fantastic and Family...Again - My Family Travels
The Tip of india
The Tip of india

I could start this essay the ol’ fashioned way. You know “the days were hot, the nights were cold,” yada, yada, yada. The days were hot and the nights were hot but not as hot. What would you expect? It’s India, my friend. IT’S ALWAYS HOT.  But you don’t want to know about the temperature, you want to know about the experience. And that is what you shall get.

We left for India 2 days before school left. That means that I had to take all of my finals 2 days before everyone else (No, I’m not complaining). My last week on U.S. soil was divided between packing items and studying. But the night before, even though I was tried and never wanted to see another t-shirt or sigma sign, I was excited. For the first time in 8 years, I would see my relatives. My uncles and aunts and cousins and grandmas and grandpas, the whole gang.

We woke up at 2:00 a.m. To some, that would have been impossible. But for me, it was too much fun. I had always associated getting up early with a good time so the earlier, the better. We checked all of the items, and left. We got to St. Paul International Airport, went through the metal detectors and boarded. And then show-time. We took off!

After 4 planes, 3 layovers and 10 hours’ worth of delays, my family and I got home. When we stepped out into the night, the first thing I felt was the humidity. It was 100 degrees with 55% humidity at 2:00 a.m.!  And I vividly remember thinking “What have we got ourselves into?” I met my uncle for the second time in my life, boarded a bus and rode for 12 hours to get into the heartland of southern India. We had reached my birthplace, Madurai.

Since I grew up in the slums of India, we didn’t go to any resorts or amusement parks or anything of the sort. The whole vacation was spent either on a bus, traveling or inside a relative’s house, talking. And I must say that talking that summer was a lot more interesting than a roller coaster ride.

The next month and half just disappeared. We traveled over 300 miles, going from uncle to grandpa to cousin, throughout all of India. The landscape? Beyond words. But if I had to describe it, imagine the rolling hills of Africa’s plains, mixed with palm trees and lakes speckled throughout like blueberries in the brown, Indian sand pancake batter.

And the food (it needs its own paragraph).  I used to think that my mother’s cooking was the epitome of Indian cuisine. Boy, was I wrong! Everywhere, street vendors were selling delicious, exotic cooking. I gained 10 pounds by just eating!  But like the sweet, light, milky flavor of “palkova,” my time in India was fading.

The last day was bittersweet. I was looking forward to using a real bathroom, seeing my friends and feeling the sensation of “cold.”  But this would the last time that I would see my family for a long time. My cousin was getting married soon; my other cousin was going to college. Life in India was so different from the last time I was here and I can only imagine how differently it will be when I come back. That last day, there were a lot of tears. Not me though, until some…uuh…dust got into my eye. When we stepped on the bus, I looked back to see everyone gathered, waving for possibly the last time in my life.

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0 Replies to “India 2010: Family, Food, Fun, Fantastic and Family…Again”

  • carinatenaglia

    hope you all like it!

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    Junior's in Times Square- http://www.juniorscheesecake.com

    The Ambassador Theater (Chicago)- http://www.ambassadortheater.com

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  • HaSieler

    I was the same way. I had my Bat Mitzvah on top of Masadah and was complaining of the heat. I didn't truly recognize what an amazing place I was in. I was fortunate enough to return last summer and had the time of my life. I look forward to seeing your post for when you get to return. I wish you all the best!

  • darling.kristina

    one of my all time favorite vacations.

  • kkkaties

    This was one of the best trips I have ever been on.

  • KayLoveGod

    I am ecstatic that I was able to participate in learning my heritage, history, and my parents past.

  • KayLoveGod

    My trip to Africa was really an extraordinary experience, and I fell in love with the country Nigeria. I am so happy that my father allowed me to see my heritage and my family.

  • tamara0110

    Truly humbling

  • carlivogl

    I hope you enjoy learning about my experiences in Paris, France!

  • alli65

    Thank you so much for this information.  Multi-generational travel is an area that I am interested in, but it is not easy to navigate various ages, levels of mobility and interests.  These tips are super useful!

  • kwn236

    This was seriously such a life-changing trip for me. I got to see a whole other way that people live life. It really opened my eyes and made me EVEN MORE eager to learn German and to adopt a more frugal lifestyle. 

  • bettygheb

    My experience with traveling to a foreign nation, in the form of a blog.

  • rmaddison

    Going on that trip was the best thing I have done in my life. I learned so much, and experienced many different things, such as food, culture, and people. It was a great opportunity for me, and I highly advise others to travel as well. You will not be disappointed.

  • emilyredmanhall

    I recommend this or a similar trip for any future paleontologists.  I have since been to the Field Museum in Chicago and the American Museum of Natural History in New York, and am pleased to have visited all the major paleontological museums in North America. 

    I hope you have fun on your trips, too!

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    This is my submission to the young travel writer scholarship

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    My trip to South Africa transformed my life. I grew closer to my best friend, as well as experience a culture very different from my own. As a result, my knowledge of the world has grown.

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    I quite enjoy I can feel the passion.

  • Rebeccakrivitsky

    I hope you enjoy the lessons i learned over seas in Spain! I know I will take them with me as I move forward in life. Thank you for reading!

    -Rebecca Krivitsky

  • chrislolz4

    enjoy my story, i pray it will reveal a new cultural avenue while still providing a humorous tale

  • dusty_soccerking

    This trip was truly life changing. It was the first time I realized that there is a whole other world outside the United States!

  • David Ng

    Thank you very much for your post! I love it very much! I will bring my family to Florida soon!

  • chris_moreno

    Thanks and support

  • MIszler1

    Here is the website documenting my trip: http://madisongoestonewyork.blog.com/

  • brittany.osmers

    My time in El Salvador changed my life. It is my dream that one day I will be able to return there. I can honestly tell you that my love for the people in El Salvador has remained with me. And I hope the best for that nation.

  • brittany.osmers

    The summer of my sophmore year in high school I spent a week in El Salvador. This one week changed my life. As I volunteered in El Salvador I gained an amazing view of different cultures and life styles. I developed a love for El Salvador and its people. And my memories there will remain with me through out my life. It is my dream that one day I will be able to return their and give more of my time to those amazing people.

  • brittany.osmers

    My freshman year of high school I spent a week of my summer in El Salvador. It was a remarkable week that literally changed my outlook on life. I have a huge heart for the people of El Salvador and the country itself. It is my dream that one day I will be able to go back.

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    My amazing trip

  • nicolelyn

    It was definitely a trip to remember that I'd do any day! 🙂

  • nicolelyn

    A trip to remember that I'd do again any day

  • nicolelyn

    It was a trip to remember. Every spect of it was interesting and something I would do again!

  • neddyfranquez

    I enjoy traviling with my family and creating new memories.

  • neddyfranquez

    I enjoy traviling and spending time with my family.

  • ciarafrisbie

    – By Ciara Bri'd Frisbie

  • nathanshaw33

    Thank you for reading my essay.

    -Nathan Shaw

  • nathanshaw33

    Thank you for taking the time to read my essay I really appreciate it.

    -Nathan Shaw.

  • treneau

    This trip was one of the most incredible experiences of my life.  From the Great Wall to the hospitals of Beijing, I learned so much about myself and other cultures.

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    I just love traveling. Disney World is my favourite destination. Above all 10 sposts are my favourite. I would love to visit all that destination.

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    Reading this story has been a stroll down memory lane.  I stayed at the Diplomat as a little girl in the 1970's, and still remember how impressed I was with it.  So glad to hear that the resort has bounced back to its original glory.  

  • alli65

    I am very glad to know that Disney Cruise Line is taking health so seriously, yet making  cleanliness palatable for kids.  These suggestions are also great for air travel, another germy breeding ground.  Thanks for the info!

  • Ron

    My family loves Cancun, and we have had good stays at the Oasis and the Sol Melia and the Sheraton too.  Nice to see a new list of recommendations from you. Thanks

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    This is a really fun outing, but if you can't get out to the countryside, just visit one of those urban tree sellers.  A lot of them in the northeast are staffed by college kids from Canada, who take a break, get into a rental trailer and drive it south, then re-sell trees they have bought on consignment to pay for the next semester.

    I always ask (nicely) and I always get (with a smile), the extra boughs that they take off to make the trees look even all around. With some ribbon, maybe the wire from a coat hanger and lots of creativity, it's easy to get the kids helping you turn old boughts into beautiful wreaths for around the house.

  • hopeworks

    Love the photos in this article!

  • Ron

    Thanks for having this contest; my family loves Snowmass and it would be great to go back there.  We took our son when he was about 7 and it was a great learning adventure for all of us.  The instructors are terrific and we had fun, but it's not something we could afford to do right now.

    Thanks for giving us another chance to go back!

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  • lsct2010

     Crystal – you get an email

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